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Emotional flashback

why do I overreact to small things

An emotional flashback is the sudden return of the feeling-state of an old experience without a clear memory attached. It presents as a disproportionate reaction to a small trigger, which is why it is so often mistaken for simply overreacting.

What to do about it

Say today's date out loud. Anchoring to now is what ends it — the feeling is old, the moment is not.

Books that work on this

Each is a 90-day programme. Start with the first — later books assume the work in the earlier ones.

Part of the Nervous System series.

How people say it

Nobody looks this up by its clinical name. These are the ways it actually gets said.

  • why do I overreact to small things
  • I feel like a child again suddenly
  • huge reaction out of nowhere
  • old feelings come flooding back
  • why does this tiny thing wreck me
  • triggered but I do not know why

Written by Brian Spiker, who has run Spiker Carpet and Tile Care since 2013 — the receipts. More terms in the encyclopedia.

About the author

Brian Spiker has run Spiker Carpet and Tile Care since 2013 — a real service business with real customers, real Google reviews, and 13 years of work most self-help authors will never do.

He writes the way operators talk: brutal, funny, and built from work that actually has to get done. Verify everything at spikercarpetandtilecare.com.