Make-It-Up-Tomorrow Bargain · also called skip-and-double-up
why do I let myself off the hook with a promise I never keep
The make-it-up-tomorrow bargain is the negotiation where skipping a commitment feels harmless because you promise yourself you will double up tomorrow — a promise you have never once actually kept. It keeps today’s felt cost at zero while the real cost quietly compounds into weeks you can no longer account for.
Check the record. That promise has never once been collected on.
What to do about it
Refuse the trade: if you skip a day, you do not double up later — you restart the whole count from day one, no exceptions.
Books that work on this
Each is a 90-day programme. Start with the first — later books assume the work in the earlier ones.
Discipline Over Motivation$6.99
No One Coming$6.99
No One Cares$6.99
Pick One LeverageComing soon
Outlive The Moment$6.99
No Skipped Days$6.99
Skip The Negotiation$6.99
Skip The Average$6.99Part of the Discipline series.
How people say it
Nobody looks this up by its clinical name. These are the ways it actually gets said.
- I’ll just make it up tomorrow
- I always tell myself I’ll double up later and never do
- skipping one day feels harmless in the moment
- I keep pushing it to tomorrow and tomorrow never comes
- why do I let myself off the hook with a promise I never keep
- one skipped day always turns into a skipped week
- I never actually make up the days I miss
Written by Brian Spiker, who has run Spiker Carpet and Tile Care since 2013 — the receipts. More terms in the encyclopedia.