Love bombing
why did they lose interest suddenly
Love bombing is an intense, accelerated display of attention and affection early in a relationship. Its function is to create attachment faster than judgement can operate, which is why the contrast when it stops feels like withdrawal rather than a normal adjustment.
What to do about it
Slow the pace deliberately. Anything genuine survives being taken slowly.
Books that work on this
Each is a 90-day programme. Start with the first — later books assume the work in the earlier ones.
Direct In Love$6.99
The Connection Blueprint$6.99
Marriage Is Job$6.99
Stop Lying Conflict$6.99
Friendship At Forty$6.99
The Loneliness Problem$6.99
Guard The Gate$6.99
Direct Is Kinder$6.99Part of the Connection series.
How people say it
Nobody looks this up by its clinical name. These are the ways it actually gets said.
- it moved so fast
- he was perfect at first then changed
- why did they lose interest suddenly
- too much too soon relationship
- intense beginning then cold
- was it love bombing
- he called me his soulmate in two weeks
Written by Brian Spiker, who has run Spiker Carpet and Tile Care since 2013 — the receipts. More terms in the encyclopedia.